To Mourn for a Soul: A Self-Realization or an Enforced Responsibility?

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• Ever lose somebody? Whether physically or mentally? and not felt like crying?

• Your life isn't always about earning everything, feeling everything, and cherishing everything, along with these beautiful ventures, your life is also destined to Lose something. We always are in the fear of losing someone close, but what we never realize is that the person who is being lost is finding a new destiny for themselves, is letting themselves loose in the fresh breeze of nature, is experiencing the ultimate freedom, and is feeling something that he/she has never felt. And just so;

• It is okay not to Cry.
• It is okay not to look upset.
• It is okay not to be angry. 
• It is okay not to feel lonely.
• It is okay not to look stuck. 
• It is okay not to feel responsible for what has happened.

• After all, these are just the barriers of being alive and I'm sure that your love for that Soul has already crossed such filthy and tiny obstacles. You, my friend, are totally in the possession of their true love whom you have lost. These 'Tears' are just a factor that the "Society" judges your love for the lost one. No 'Individual', no 'Society', no 'Friend', no 'Family', or no 'Guru' ever has the right to judge the love and respect you have for a lost soul. Let their knowledge be just to them, let their words not judge you, and never let their thoughts harm you in any way. Because "Dogs are best-left barking than to be attacked".

• Whenever you care about a person from your beneath, from your heart, and your soul, there is no 'Power', no 'Factors', no 'Judgments' or no 'God', in the universe that can change the fact about 'how much you adored that person', 'how much you loved that person', 'how much you respected that person', and 'how much you still miss that person'. In such times;

• It is okay not to be strong.
• It is okay not to be able to express yourself.
• It is okay to laugh when all you feel is anger.
• It is okay to be lost in such chaos.
• It is okay to adore something that the world won't understand.
• It is okay to be you.
• It is "Okay".

• Whenever you are sad, it's not important to pretend like everything is okay. You have every right in the world to feel that sadness. Why suppress your feelings for, 'What will people think?', do feel every single emotion that goes through your heart. Speak to it with all your heart, feel to it with all your heart, talk to it with all your heart, and eventually, you are communicating to that Soul with all your heart. "Sorrows are never best left ignored, They exist so that they can be felt and understood".

• Yes, you have been a little harsh on them, they might have been a little harsh on you, there might have been ups and downs, but if you ever felt a hundred moments of anger towards them, there are a million moments backing it up depicting how much you cared for them, how much faith you have in them and how much you adored them, so the fact never changes that this life is meant to be 'Harsh', and thereby that soul was, is and will always be 'Your Beautiful and the Harshest Soul'.

• Do believe in "Death is not the end of life, but simply a part of it". And never let these materialistic relationships, mature thoughts, and the societal standards affect the purest form of love you have shared with that gorgeous and everlasting Soul. These kinds of individuals are just a part of your life, but whom you have lost is and will always be your 'Life'. So, concentrate on the greater good and don't hold on to such hopelessness. These people and their thoughts do not deserve your attention. Tears take away the memories and leaves behind the fact that you have lost them. Commit your Mind and Heart to the beautiful soul of theirs, as what they still expect from you is Love and to not get confused and hopeless in some silly negative thoughts. And I'm sure they wanna let you know that;

• They are already Proud of You.
• They still Love you.
• They still care for you.
• They are still adoring your presence.
• They do love you for what you are.
• And they expect you to be what you are.

• To sum up, I'd say, "Whomst you have lost is not experiencing the 'Last Sleep', but experiencing the 'First Awakening'".

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