Ego: A Blind Act of Self Destruction

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• Ever felt like not thinking about yourself ?? Never, No ?? It is alright to be accompanied by the sense of 'EGO'. But to let it control your mentality helps it redefine your 'Life-saving Virtues' as some 'Dreadful Sins'.


• Try asking yourself this;


• Why is receiving without 'Pride' so difficult?

• Why is the eagerness of hearing 'Sorry' greater than the art of saying 'Sorry'?

• Why is 'Winning against the People' more opted alternative than simply 'Winning the People'?

• Why is it necessary to let your 'Soul' fall asleep, only for the awakening of such 'EGO'?

• Why allow your 'EGO' to take over and turn every single reality of yours into a self-created 'Illusion'? 


• We people continue to hold on to the 'fake pride' in front of the society, that, all the expectations, all the fears, all the embarrassments, and all the risks of failures, of ours possesses a higher ground than our Self-Acceptance and Self-Independence. Why are 'We' not understanding the simplicity of our existence, that, it is okay to 'Fail' whenever we 'Try', it is okay to feel completely 'lost' when we are searching for our 'Destination', it is okay to 'Lose' when we are aiming to 'Win', it is okay to speak the 'Truth' against ourselves when we are trying to stay out of 'Trouble'. 


• Yes, you will be able to build a shield from your 'EGO' that nobody will ever be powerful enough to penetrate, but at what cost?, and in the end, what lies beyond your shield is the empty limitless space of your own Conscience. What will it ultimately achieve by being all there by yourself?, What will the darkness provide that no light would? What can the Self-esteem come up with that no Respect would?, What will the Greed deliver that no generosity would?, What will the pride prepare that no comfort would?,  I agree that your EGO is supposed to take over the control because it itself lives in the Fear. But are you willing to live in the same fear too?


• Understand this, it is alright not to be somebody's 'Necessity', it is alright not to be somebody's lifelong 'Partner', it is alright not to be somebody's immediate 'Requirement', it is alright not to be somebody's 'Soulmate', because you are primarily supposed to be your 'Owns' rather than being somebody else's. The answer to the question of 'EGO' is destined to be left ignored than to be answered. So, keep in mind that, the only War a 'Loser' wins is the War of 'EGO'.


• So, let's break the shield of our 'EGO' and build a fort of 'Self-acceptance' where, we 'Forgive quickly', 'Believe slowly', 'Love truly', 'Laugh loudly', 'Speak less' and 'Understand more'. Let's stop being just attracted to the 'Good Side' of a person but also start considering the 'worst side' of it because a plain piece of paper might look attractive but the lessons of life will always be written on a torn-out piece of paper with a lot of corrections.


• To sum up, I'd say, "The Only factor that will establish your 'Conscience' is, whether you hold on to that 'E' and make it your 'EGO' or you skip that 'E' and just let it 'GO'".

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